Last Saturday I was enjoying a quiet afternoon to myself. Reading a new book and watching girly shows on TV while the bf was out playing darts with his stupid fucking neighbor friend that I very much dislike.
Around 5pm they come home requesting dinner. Meatloaf. But not just any meatloaf. I had a 10 minute conversation on exactly how they want their precious meatloaf made. As I had nothing else to do, and I enjoy cooking (although I really wanted someone to pick up a taco for me for dinner) I complied. Played some music and got down on some meatloaf making madness. Once completed, the confirmation text message was sent along with a request to pick up another bottle of wine.
7PM. 8PM. 830PM - decided to eat. 9PM. 930PM.....door opens...
BF...no stupid fucking neighbor friend...and they have already eaten...and were at a strip club. Oh..and no wine.
Seriously?
I actually kept my cool but spelled it out for him that that was the rudest thing he has ever done and should be ashamed. And he felt bad.
3 Days Later...Valentine's Day.
So...before all of this, I was putting the old bf to the test to see if maybe after 6 years of dating HE would make Vday plans. Of course he didn't. But asked me the day before what we should do. I said I didn't care so he offered to make dinner so I could relax. Sounds alright. So I get a call Vday afternoon asking what we are doing for Vday. "Well I thought you were cooking dinner?" Reply: "Well yeah we can still do that....or there is a Bulls game on tonight...so maybe we can go out to watch the game??"
Seriously?
Came home and it was like any regular day. He cooked a crappy dinner. Didn't even set the table or make it even the slightest bit special. Played one of his imfamous cd mixes that change from Tom Petty to Dr. Dre. I pretended to enjoy our meal. (I'm a pretty good actress) But then we had an argument over something stupid. And it pretty much blew up from there. Sleep back to back. Woke up in a terrible mood.
If he doesn't make it up to me...maybe I should find other guys to occupy my time.
Ass.
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Yes hes being an ass and no i dont think he should get away with it, but i also dont believe going and finding a boy toy is a mature way to tell someone your hurt by the neglect your getting. I think you should try to get together alone and talk it out see if there's something eating at him (assuming he hasnt always been a douch, if he has why are you still with him?) and talk about the fact you feel hurt and just want to be cared about and treated like someone whos important to him and not just some tool. Ps. if you still want revenge after that a mans biggest weakness is his mother so tell on him not only should it bring you tons of luaghs he might actually learn his lesson(also if you prefer a mans second greatest weakness is sex so just give him some blue balls XD).
Ouch! Going for the mother and the balls... It's crazy enough that it just might work...
Lol thanks for the compliment XD.
Let me tell you something darling...in my country we say: It is one who feed the pig..
This means that you are as much responsible for his disregard for your person. You seem to expect him to take things has seriously as you do...remember, you have to be very specific and also make yourself respected and valued...Some partners expect their loved one to always be on the same frame of mind as them. BTW: Valentine's day is nothing but a commercial ploy...a few years back it barely existed...and how about being nice the rest of the year...perhaps you should love yourself a little and ask whether this man really loves you and whether you are willing to love him for all the "pig" that he is...and ask him too: VERY VERY CLEARLY AND POINTEDLY!