For starters, this isn't another lonely "looking for the perfect woman" and "where have all the REAL women gone" man. This is coming from an 18 year old girl.
I am sick and fucking tired of snobby, trashy, stupid dames who think they're better because they either have wealth, looks, a hot boyfriend or all of the above. I hate how they like being generally horrible, and get everything through being so. What I hate even more is how everyone wants to be one of these girls, and even I can't help but covet them on occasion! I HATE IT SO FRIGGIN MUCH.
I'm not gonna say I'm ugly, because I'm not. And I'm not going to say I'm attractive either, because I don't want to be even remotely like these horrible women. But there is some part of me that DOES want to be more like these women! That makes me feel terrible, and I hate myself for it! No one should have to change into a rude, self-centered monster of a human being to get ANYTHING! And why do men take interest in these women? Those girls treat everyone like crap sooner or later, but still everybody wants one of these "crazy party girls"! Crazy is an understatement.
Everything must go their way, and God forbid if it doesn't! Lest they bitch and moan some more, which seems to fix all their problems. They have everything they want literally handed to them! And here I am (but I'm sure I'm not the only one) trying to go out of my way to be polite, sincere, and genuinely pleasant and I get a big "FUCK YOU!" out of life. It makes me absolutely livid! I think it's horrible how people can get by on how they look from a society that says "it's what's on the INSIDE that counts!". Well, apparently, society wants a buncha bitches being all skanky up in here.
I don't want to have to be a slut to be loved, and I'm tired of seeing others succumb to this.
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I see where she's coming from. When I was out of college, I had a hard time finding other decent, mature, intelligent women. It seems many young women (my age 20s) seem interested in partying, relational drama, and seem to have no real hobbies other than shopping while maxing their credit card. I also cant stand trashy-ness. What annoys me the most is when women pretend to be dumb for whatever reason.
But hang in there. Be yourself and confident in yourself and you'll finally find other mature women (and men). Here's how I found my friends - through a book club/writers club and an advocacy group that I joined. Find more intelligent hobbies and chances are you'd find like-minded women. Do you see broads in political advocacy groups, writers clubs, going to art museums etc? And if you are in college, you have many more opportunities to join a club or activity of your interest. Please do this when you're in college because once you're out, you dont have as many opportunities.
Those idiots waste their time with each other? Let them have all the drama in their own world. Dumb guys go for dumb girls cuz they just can't handle anyone else.
Just you rock being the confidant woman you want to be. Like attracts like. Believe me, not all guys are into dumb broads.
Dear Tired of Dumb Broads,
Your situation is very serious. Critical. You must get yourself immediately to a Doctor. A Plastic Surgeon, and get the complete package: plastic tits, ass lift, botox, collagen lips, lipo, laser hair removal, teeth and anus bleaching... everything. Then go immediately to the brain surgeon and have 2/3 of your brain removed. After that, you stare at yourself in mirrors for 5 to 6 hours a day for no reason. Find a similarly shallow, simple, deranged man and force him into marriage. Then you'll be happily on your way to a normal enviable life.
Or you can try and be a decent, kind, strong human. There's not many movies, tv shows, magazines, or books about those kinda people. It might be harder to do, but, if you can manage to resist all the bullshit and hype you might be able to have a rewarding life with someone that truly matters: yourself. Ta Da! I'm like a magician. I just made a real person appear.
Yes, this happens and it is WRONG. You will get your heart broken by some jackass (if you haven't already) because he is unsure what he should truly value. Take comfort though because they wind up miserable in their lives. Set an example and know you are doing the right thing. Someone with similar thinking will come along and value you and your opinions/ thoughts but you will not find them where "everybody else" is hanging out with the party trash. I have experienced your righteous anger myself and had the wrong guys pursue me because they wanted an arm charm. Not to babble exhaustively but don't give in and don't change anything but the crowd you are with if this is what interests them.
As cliche as it may sound, my only advice to you is to be yourself. Why should it matter how the people around you are, or what they expect from you? I know it's easy to give into the pressure, but for someone like you who is still able to think and make choices in life, you'd really regret it later. Be yourself and be happy, Coz -and trust me on that- there's much more to life than what the people around you make of it.
Dear Bohner,
It seems that your main problem is a simple one: You see yourself as an individual. This should be firmly discouraged, as we don't like to have individuals in society. That may lead to freedom of thought and expression, but worse than that, NEW IDEAS!
You should strive to be a mindless automaton, secure in the knowledge that if you are, no one will really know you, or love you, but will accept you into that shallow clique.
Or you could choose to live a life where you don't take crap from those bitchy dumb blonde types, and engage people in intelligent conversation. Amazingly, you might find that people respect you more if you more than two brain cells!
I know I'd rather spend my life with someone unafraid to stand out for being able to string together a coherent sentence than someone all looks but a bit of a bungalow (nothing upstairs)! ):-D